I had cause to speak to a local adhesive / epoxy manufacturer some time ago Jim, about a special adhesive. The info he gave me was very useful and it surprised me a little.
Obviously you have to clean both parts before applying any adhesive and roughen both areas, but it's the roughening that I was out on. Apparently when the adhesive manufacturers say "roughen both areas" they have a different definition of roughen to most folk.
He was quite clear in saying for chemical bonding when they say "roughen" they don't mean go over it with 40 grit, they mean something like 2000 grit. It's supposed to end up looking like a smooth matt finish, no shine but perfectly smooth.
Hope this helps.